I think we’ve finally gotten there. By just about every calendar there is; Chinese, Lunar, Astrological, Gregorian, et al, we are officially in a new year. So if you haven’t been feeling that new year, new you vibe since January, it may now be starting to stir.
A couple weeks ago we spoke about emptying your space. Creating openness and a vacuum to welcome in what new thing was waiting to come in. Having done even a small version of that, you may be seeing glimpses of that new essence vying for an invitation.
While we are often told what to bring into our literal and energetic spaces, we ultimately get to decide. What criteria are you using to decide what comes in now? What will shape your discerning lens?
Our Criteria
Here are three we use at the studio when shaping rooms. May this get you started as you consider your own.
1) Quality: Recently I read a new-to-me definition of quality that fit our first criteria of what we bring into a space so completely. Suzanne Clothier paraphrased Robert Pirsig saying, “Quality is not a thing. Quality is an event.” We are used to the word quality to mean made of sturdy materials, long lasting, maybe handmade or environmentally friendly. All of that and more still applies. This new definition is where those things and us come together. An event includes how we came to it, where it came from, where its going. Its the extra special feeling we get. Not merely physical, but also that unseen scared element of the coming together. What are you welcoming in “of quality”?
2) Mutually supportive: I want each item chosen for my home and my clients’ to support them. And I want the maker of that item, the craftsperson and hand-maker to be supported by our purchasing it. Who is ultimately receiving compensation for us welcoming this piece into our home?
This means bonus points for local and circular economies whenever possible. And a minimum of well-paid artisans in a healthy working environment. What we focus on grows and if our purchasing power is our focus, what are we helping to grow?
3) Ours: This is about connection. Is this piece meant for me or my client? Its a mindfulness exercise that can help us know if its the right thing for our space. Close your eyes, hold it in your hand or picture it in your mind’s eye and simply ask. “Is this mine? Is this for me?”
If yes, pay its full value. If no, scroll on, or place it down for someone else to pick up.